Our Joy

Welcome Arrowhead

2009-08-20T17:27:00.000-07:00

James has opened his second office, Arrowhead Dental Group. Though there were a few set backs (remember the fire? 2 weeks before opening...yeah) the office opened a few months ago and had their grand opening back in July. It was great! They set a company wide record for appointments scheduled...pretty cool. He has such amazing staff there, we couldn't be happier! So here are a few pics from that super exciting day!

They had Cuddles the clown come and do face painting and balloons. She was a big hit!

James, Dr. Holly and the staff at Arrowhead
The tooth fairy made an appearance....
So did a llama...
A very lonely llama.
The city of Glendale did a ribbon cutting ceremony.
She looked so cute I didn't have the heart to tell her the mask goes over your mouth not your hair. Although you have to admit, she looks pretty good in a white coat.
James and his super excited patient. She had won a free zoom, I'd be happy too!!
Tammy and Sam, his office manager and multi office manager.

It was a great day. We're excited to be part of such a great team!

I will not fight, I will not fight

2009-08-18T21:41:00.000-07:00

Today was one of those days. One where you instinctively know that your children are not going to have a good day. Is it mother's intuition? Is it the spirit prompting you to "be ye therefore patient?", or is it simply the fact that from the moment they roll out of bed nothing seems to go right? Well, this was one of those days for Walker and Levi. Our boys are generally wonderful. They play together and seem to really enjoy each others company. But not today.

At about 8:55 I received both a text and voice message from Brooklyn telling me the boys had gotten into a fight on the bus. But she had turned her phone off and I couldn't get details -- not that I needed them. I knew, without being told, exactly what had transpired. Sure enough about 20 minutes later I get a call from the bus driver. (It's pretty sad when she has you on speed dial...sigh...oh well.) She proceeds to tell me that, as I had already predicted, Levi was teasing Walker to the point that Walker had had enough so he then grabbed a hold of Levi's hair and in turn Levi grabbed a hold of Walker and then they went at it. She had to pull the bus over and Brooklyn went running to try to pull them a part.

She asked if she should pull the tape. There is a camera on each bus and when there is an "incident" the tape is pulled and shown to the principal. Joy. So she left it up to me. I chose not to this time. I told her we would handle it this first time at home, but should it ever happen again she didn't even need to call. Pull the tape and send them to see the principal.

I guess Walker was pretty upset and went into class in tears. So Mr. Hockman took him to Levi's class and the boys apologized to one another and gave eachother a hug. So of course when the boys got home they figured all was well. Poor souls. They had their video games, computer, tv and toys all taken away. They could read and color -- that's it. Plus they had to write "I WILL NOT FIGHT" 50 times. We sat them down and spoke to them about treating each other with love and respect and the proper way to handle things. The boys were pretty teary eyed by the end...mainly because I think without their electronics and toys they are at a loss.

It was sweet though, tonight when Walker said his prayers he asked Heavenly Father to "please, please, please forgive me and please bless me and Levi not to fight anymore." I think He heard you Bud. Over all I'm so proud of these sweet little boys and feel very blessed that they get along so well given their circumstances. Bad days notwithstanding. ;-)

Back to School!

2009-08-10T10:57:00.000-07:00

Today the kids started school. Once again I am sitting here wishing I had just a little more time. It always feels that way doesn't it? They were all so excited, and I did my best to be excited with them. They were up at 6:30 this morning. The girls wanted their hair curled...which is a first. Even last year I had to beg them to let me put a few curls in. They are growing up and though I wish I could, I can't stop it. The girls are more concerned this year with their hair and clothes. The boys are getting more into sports and friends. Each of them is developing their individual personalities. I do love each of them so much!

James took the morning off and we all drove to the school. I feel fortunate that they, even Brooklyn, still want us there with them.
Last night James gave each of the kids their school blessings. Each was sweet and perfectly fitting. We feel blessed to have such wonderful children. While I'm not looking forward to homework, I am looking forward to spending much more time at the kids school. I have become a volunteer and have already told Brooklyn's teacher that I will come in 3 days a week to help with a student that needs a little more one on one. I am also going to help around the classrooms of the others whenever possible. So they can't get rid of me just yet! (insert evil laugh here)

Oh and to answer your question. Yes, the 80's have come back....with a vengeance.

Island Park

2009-07-28T08:10:00.000-07:00

A couple weeks ago James an I took a trip up to Idaho to visit my little brother and his cute family. His wife Jen's family has a cabin in Island park so we headed up to spend the weekend with the bears. Let me say, I am NOT a camper. Never have been. BUT, this was a cabin with a toilet and running water so I fared pretty well. We had a great time. The weather was perfect. The night before we went up I was able to have dinner and spend some time with an old friend. Jaime and her husband Brandon. It was so nice to see them and their super cute kids.

James also had a chance to re-visit his adolescence...
I think my favorite part of the trip was riding the quads. No broken bones this time.
We visited the oldest cabin up in Island park. It was built by a man named Johnny Sack. He was only like 4 and a half feet tall. So everything in the cabin was little. Here John and James decided they would reenact what Johnny must have looked like next to a normal size man.
The cabin sits at the head of the river. The water is crystal clear and you can go and feed the fish there. James thought it would be funny to feed me to the fish.
James trying to find signal to call a prescription in for his patient. What did we ever do before cell phones? Oh wait, I know, we had nice, quiet, peaceful vacations.
James really loves kids. And they love him right back. Trynitee was his new best friend while we were there.
I went out with the boys to watch them shoot. I did give the handgun a try. Not a big fan of shotguns. I was quite content to run the skeet shooter.
Dad and John giving me a few pointers.
We decided to do a little fishing before heading home. Unfortunately all that was accomplished was the refining of our casting skills.
Mama's little man...
John with his little boy Johnny and a pink and purple fishing pole...hey I'm just pointing out details.
"Taste?"
On our way there and on our way home I got to meet my sweet little nephew Juno. He was such a cutie! Needless to say he looks just like his momma and big brother! I think he got Bud's hands and feet. ;-)

Happy 4th...Just a little late!

2009-07-21T09:40:00.000-07:00

We had a great, relaxing 4th of July. James and his buddy Beau went golfing that morning while the kids and I just hung out at home. We then had the Manutai family over for a little bar-b-que and then headed over to Peoria to watch the fireworks. They had a fun little carnival for the kids. They had a lot of fun, despite the heat. The fireworks show I must say was a little weak...or I guess it would be better to say it was short. But regardless we had a great day!

Walker made a cute new little friend. ;-) At least we know he has very good taste.
How does that saying go again? Something about when a boy hits you...
No worries though, she she wasn't going down that easy.
Brooklyn wasn't going to get beat either, especially not by a boy!
We got the kids these great light up swords...the funny thing was, the line was ridiculously long and James didn't want to wait so he went to a lady at the front and asked her to buy the swords for him. She was confused and it took him a minute to explain to her that he would give her the money, he just didn't want to wait in line. I think she's still a little confused.
We have about 30 pictures of the fireworks. James was having a grand ol' time with the camera but this was one of my favorites.
Well, since I am incapable of going anywhere without losing something no one will be surprised to know that somehow I managed to just forget I was holding my phone and dropped it out in the middle of a field. Luckily I had Klorissa! She kept calling my phone until someone answered. Then she went and found the lady who had found it. Thanks girl, I owe you big time!

Sun-N-Sand Part 1

2009-07-07T10:48:00.000-07:00

A couple weeks ago we decided...very last minute...to take the kids to Newport beach. James' business partner has a beach house there and let us come and stay for the weekend. At first the kids were confused -- "we're going to California but not to Disneyland? However I think the beach proved to hold as much excitement for them as Disney. They loved the sand and letting the waves chase them in. All but Levi and I even braved swimming out into the ocean with James. (Levi was more content to sit in the sand and dig and build sand castles, and I don't particularly enjoy swimming in salt water. Especially cold salt water.) Brooklyn even gave boogie boarding a try. Although we found out pretty quick that this was not the best part of the beach to learn. After being tumbled around a bit Brooklyn decided that she was done boogie boarding for awhile.

We had such a wonderful time and the kids, as usual, are asking when do we go back? Truth be told they're not the only ones who are asking ;-). Now we took probably close to 400 pictures. I did my best to pick out my favorites. But as many of you know I am the most indecisive human being and therefore you will forgive me for posting so many. I will only post the beach pictures today. I will post the others in a day or so.

James giving Brooklyn a few pointers...
That's my girl!
Kalysta loved chasing down and picking up the seaweed!
Levi was so mad! He had spent so much time building his sand castle only to have it washed away... :-( No worries though, he just moved up and started over. That boy doesn't let anything bother him for long.

Walker seemed to have no fear of the water. He would stand there and just wait for the waves to crash down and come after him. He said he wasn't afraid of the ocean. James and I tried to teach him that it's good to have a healthy fear of the ocean. But he wasn't buying it.
Everyone loves a cowboy...;-)James had a good time swimming in the ocean...
While I preferred to stay on dry ground and nap...
Yes, the water was freezing. Which is why this is as wet as I got!
The boys "helping" James make lunch.

XP 2009

2009-06-20T11:14:00.000-07:00

XP this year was great! I am continually impressed with the amount of time and effort that is put into this event every year. I love that Steve Thorne (the president and CEO of PDS) does this, that he loves to give recognition to those who work so diligently and are desrving of these awards. We always have such an amazing time. Each year there is a theme. This year it was a Saturday Night Live-esque theme...Live from PDS it's XP Live. At the awards banquet we got to walk down the red carpet, there were cameras, a hostess doing interviews and a photo shoot. John Maxwell came to speak, I missed most of that one 'cause I was getting a pedicure. James said it was great, which is saying something-he doesn't particularly care for lectures.

There were a couple things that I did catch at the end though, one is to start paying your kids to read motivational books, which we plan to implement with Brooklyn this year (he said kids 10 and older). He has written one that I would like Brooklyn to read next year called Failing Forward. The next 2 things that struck me were things I'm sure I've heard before but never really thought much about. He said that, NO ONE can MAKE us happy, we choose either to be happy or not to be, but then we should surround ourselves with people who will ADD to our happiness. But we cannot expect to go through life waiting for others to make us happy. The other is that no matter what we do out of the home, if those at home do not "like" us we have failed. He didn't say love us, he said like us. If the people that matter most to us not only love us but like us as well, we will be successful.

The second speaker was Connie Podesta whom I could go on and on about. I encourage you to google her, she's wonderful! I think the thing she said that I loved most was NEVER to trust your children. Love them, encourage them, forgive them, teach them but never, ever trust them. She asked us if there was ever a time that we kept things from our parents or did things that we hid from them and that pretty much proved her point. That and do not be your child's friend, they have friends...be their parents. Which is something I have always firmly believed.

Ok Ok, I could go on and on about the speakers alone, but I'll move on. The first day the guys had Owner Doctor meetings and so of course that left us with nothing to do but head to the mall. Where we did a considerable amount of damage. The guys, for their activity, went bowling. James and Todd were actually tied for the highest score and were going to have a "bowl-off" but then some girl on another team ended up barely beating both of them. They were pretty bummed, they are both very competitive and were looking forward to it. Their team however did win, so that was enough. They even got cool bowling shirts and a corny trophy!
The first night we all headed out. We ate at a restaurant we thought (given the pricing) would be super delish but was anything but. I think we would've at that point been happy with Wendy's. Afterwards we all went for ice cream and a little more shopping. The guys went to see a movie but the girl's were pretty tired and headed back to the hotel.
The banquet was amazing. Of course any event that allows me to get all dressed up is pretty amazing in my eyes. Kelly, Summer and I were interviewed by the host and Kelly told her we were the "real" housewives of Phoenix...good stuff. The food was great. Both of the lead assistants form both of James' office's won awards. Marty, the lead in Arrowhead had actually won it from her time in the Buckeye office. She won the gold award. Marina, his lead in Surprise won the platinum. These awards are based on the amounts of votes you get from those who work with you. So it's a great honor.

James, Rick, Todd and Chris

Kelly, me and Summer

My hot date...

James, Marty and Brandon

James and I and Brandon and his wife Dawn

Marina with her award.

Gotta get the shoes.

Any chance we have to take a vacation together is well worth it! We had a wonderful time and I can't wait until next year!!

Great to be 8!

2009-06-19T09:34:00.001-07:00

My sweet little niece Skylee turned 8 a couple weeks ago. So we headed to Utah for her birthday party and baptism. I love baptism's. Sitting in the chapel with all the eager, happy little 8 year old children. I'm sure I'm not the only sitting there that thought back to my own baptism day. I realized that this is something I should be doing every Sunday. Though I may not remember every detail I do remember the way I felt. Clean, happy, loved. It was so sweet to see Skylee baptized and then confirmed by her father. Though the words of the ordinances are simple, they hold so much promise! We are so proud of you Sky!

Skylee's birthday party was the day before the baptism. My sister Charity made the cutest cake. I aspire to be like my little sister...but alas, my "homemaking" skills are far below that of hers. Not to mention I don't remember the last birthday party I threw that didn't involve Chuck E Cheese or something of the sort where all the work is done for you.

The kids always enjoy these trips. I swear we don't see them from the moment we arrive until the moment we have to leave. They LOVE playing with their cousins!

Two beauties, my little sis Sallie and my Grandma!
My wonderful grandparents.
My youngest brother and his wife and soon to be little boy!! Of course you can't really tell she due in 4 weeks.
My beautiful little sister and her sweet little Cayden
Skylee on her baptism day.
All the grandkids...and then some!
As before, the trip was wonderful and it was hard to say goodbye. James and I decided to try a new route home. It was actually faster! Not to mention prettier. We made a few stops along the way to let Kalytsa and Levi play. There were these random massive boulders on the side of the road. Pretty cool!

Amazin'

2009-05-31T12:11:00.001-07:00

Bring on Orlando...

Final Days

2009-05-27T16:37:00.000-07:00

The end of another school year has come....far too quickly as usual. We have been very blessed this year to have had such amazing teachers. I have to say that I have been so impressed with the quality of the educators at Canyon Ridge. Our children have flourished and grown by leaps and bounds and we couldn't be happier. Brooklyn had 2 final field trips to close out the school year. I was able to attend the first with her. The Botanical Gardens in Phoenix. We learned about the wonderful wildlife here in the dessert (I have already expressed my feelings at length on this matter). We also learned of how the first people to live here in the dessert survived....without a/c. Pretty interesting stuff. I think our favorite part had to be the butterfly preserve. A big net building with tons of butterflies fluttering around you. They also had huge glass sculptures on display...beautiful!

Brooklyn taking her own pictures.
A very tired, hot and unamused butterfly...
It's a good thing it was only 90 that day. (Could someone please explain why these field trips are scheduled in May as opposed to February or March? Just a thought...)

The kids last day of school was great. The boys both had "picnics" luckily Levi's started an hour before Walkers so I didn't have to miss anything. Levi's class put on a little play and sang some cute songs. I'm not sure what it was about a cute little kindergartner singing "Time to say goodbye to Kindergarten" to the tune of "Love and Marriage" that got me so emotional. But sure enough there I was, tears and all, clapping in the back. I'm a sucker for the "I'm growing up now" stuff I guess. Levi was so proud of his certificate.

Levi and his teacher Mrs. Taylor (Sorry Holli, I had to!)

I think one of Walker's favorite things about school was all the friends he made. He came home day after day talking about his new friends. I think the hardest part of summer for him will be not seeing those kids every day. He too had a fantastic teacher.

Walker with one of his favorite people Mrs. Encarnacion

Jacob Knaggs, Walker and Ty Webb

I think besides Levi Jacob was Walker's favorite little buddy.

I wish I could've gotten more pictures of the girls but at least I got these two. The girls also had wonderful teachers. Kalysta's teacher, Mrs. Downs was so good with her. Very patient and had genuine concern and love for her. Brooklyn's teacher knew just how to challenge her and spent many hours working on ways to teach a very gifted group of kids. Brooklyn finished out the year with straight A's. She reached her goal of straight A's all year. She told me she really wants to go to BYU and knows she'll have to have at least a 4.0 or better so she feels she needs to start now. We're proud of all our smart, sweet and talented kids! We want to give big Kudos to all of the teachers who have had such a wonderful influence on our children! Thanks!!

Kalysta and her 1st grade graduate certificate!!

Brooklyn and her teacher Mrs. Speight

I also have to say our kids had a really wonderful bus driver. The kids really loved her.

Look how we've grown!!
First Day of School
Last Day of School
OK, so not much difference, but if you could see their brains....

Visitors

2009-05-11T20:35:00.000-07:00

I am thoroughly convinced that I am INCAPABLE of writing a short post. So why try?

We've had a couple of great visits from some pretty great people. Living here in Arizona, we don't get many visitors. I know I have mentioned this many times but I LOVE it when my family comes to town. I miss them so much and so I treasure each and every moment.

First we had James' cousin Chip come from Tennessee. I truly believe that Larry the Cable guy should watch his back....he ain't got nothin' on Chip. (Have you ever noticed how contagious a Texas accent can be?) I laughed until I literally could not laugh anymore. We loved having Chip here. I got to hear some great childhood stories. Not to mention it seems that Chip and I seem to be equally passionate about politics and cooking. I think Chip's Italian chicken was a bigger hit with the kids than anything I've been able to make thus far. Chip you are welcome to visit and make us dinner ANYTIME. We love ya!

When Chip came to visit he didn't come empty handed. He and his sweet wife Tammy bought us all wonderful and very thoughtful gifts! They got James a nice Texas Longhorns watch, which James L-O-V-E loves! How could he not? Then the last time he was here I was telling him that I used to have this great Magic Johnson jersey but have somehow managed to misplace it. So, yep you guessed it, they got me a new one! I cannot begin to describe their thoughtfulness. And of course they didn't forget the kids...they gave them Wal-mart gift cards, which in this house is priceless! Thank you again!
Then the doc that James worked for while in his undergrad came into town and James was able to visit with him and show him the cerec machine. James is ranked as a "master" in cerec technology so it was a treat for the "paddiwon" to teach the "Jedi" as Dr. Foutz referred to it. He did say James was Anaquin and he was Obi-won. Although I think James actually makes a better "Luke" than Vader. That being said they had a great visit.
And lastly, my sister's Charity and Sallie and Sallie's hubby Jesse came to visit. They brought their kiddos along and we, as always, had a blast. It's definitely summer time here in Az. So we headed to the splash park. The kids always have so much fun.

And what would a family get together be like without a Lakers game? Not to mention we enjoyed watching them beat the Jazz. There is nothing that brings more joy than to defeat Utah. Jess did show his support for the losing team. But his faith, along with the Jazz defense, proved to be fruitless.

I can't say it enough. We love, LOVE our family. They have been so wonderful to James and I. We feel very blessed to call them family.

Snakes & Snails & Puppy Dog Tails

2009-05-05T09:44:00.000-07:00

Levi and Walker have been learning about this wonderful dessert we live in (whatever). So, 2 weeks ago they were able to go on a field trip to the White Tank Mountains and I was able to chaperon. It was pretty interesting. We learned all about the super fun creatures that crawl around outside (and sometimes in...but I'm trying not to think about it). We got to see the 3 different types of scorpions that live in the Arizona dessert. One of which James killed just a couple weeks ago outside. The Arizona Bark scorpion is the most poisonous of the three....and one of the smallest. Joy. We also got to see a Gila Monster. That was pretty cool, although they are extremely poisonous. The only part I was not too thrilled about was the park ranger who did the reptile display. He was horrible to the kids. I mean come on these kids are 5 and 6 years of age and you get upset because they want to ask a question? It was tempting to push the rattlesnake cage over on top of him.

It was actually a pretty nice day, but still hot. We had to keep spraying the kids down to keep them cool.

The boys were obviously very in to the reptile display.
Walker with his "buddy" Marquis

Levi with his "buddy" Bryce

And of course who doesn't LOVE touching snakes?

We had a lot of fun. I feel very blessed to have these opportunities to spend with my children. I enjoy seeing them with their friends and classmates. To see their genuine interest in the simplest things. Things I take for granted every day. I know I complain about living in the dessert but there is true beauty here. My children helped me see that.

We also had the Mother/Son Spring Fling the week before the field trip. I simply have the best looking boys, hands down. Not to mention the sweetest. They were so excited for our little "date". I loved spending time with my 2 little men. We had some bar-b-que chicken and then went to the gym where we danced and played basketball, hoola hoop and hockey. It was one of the best date nights yet!

Who could resist a kiss from two extremely handsome men?

This is the photo they took at the school. The boys look so cute!!

I love these two little boys. They are wonderful! I have enjoyed watching them grow so much this year. I can't believe how grown up they both are!! I love my little boys and have to agree with Walker when he says he wishes he could just stay 6 years old forever.

Smarty Pants, Busy Bees and The Helper Fairy

2009-05-04T09:30:00.000-07:00

Once again I find myself playing catch up. Our lives have been verging on the insanely out of control. As the school year draws to a close (14 days and counting) it seems that the the kids have more activities, plays, assemblies, and field trips planned than they have had the entire year! So with that I begin this entry. Kalysta has been learning about insects for the last month. They had a cute little play last week in which Kalysta played a bee. I would argue that you have never seen a cuter little busy bee!
After the play they sang a few songs....the classic "Ants Go Marching" and "Here Comes the Sun" ...her Papa would've been proud to hear her belt out the great Beatles tune so well ;-).

As most of you know (because I tend to brag a bit too much) Brooklyn is in the G.A.T.E program at her school. Canyon Ridge's gate program is self contained and there are only 4 4th graders in the entire school district who have been able to pass the test which allows them to be a part of this program, Brooklyn is one of them. On a side note, the tests should be a little less stringent as I believe there are many more kids who can benefit from this program. Personally I think they are trying to get rid of the program and therefore make the test nearly impossible to pass to show that the funding could be put to better use, i.e. football, basketball, after school programs. And here I thought the primary function of the schools was to "educate". What foolish thinking. Sorry, that is a topic for another day. To the point...Brooklyn is not only in the gifted program, but at the beginning of the year set a goal to get straight A's. So far so good. Here are a couple pictures of her at the last honors assembly. Brooklyn has been on the "Principle's List" all 3 quarters so far. We are so proud of you Brooklyn!

We are so lucky to have such amazing kids! Which brings me to my final post for today. Over the last couple months I have noticed a "disturbing trend". Our children, as fabulous as they are, seem to have it in their cute little heads that mom and dad have the sole responsibility to make them happy. To be there at each and every beck and call. To clean up after them and make a 5 course meal every evening. HA! Poor souls. Last week we decided to sit them all down and have a discussion about each of our roles as members of this family. We told them how much we loved them and that we are proud of each of them. Then we told them that it was time for a change. No more will mom pick up after you. No more will I have wining at the dinner table. No more making demands. No more fits when things aren't done the way you think they should be. No more snotty remarks. We told them that it was fine to make a mess. They're kids, they can make messes. However, I will not be cleaning them up anymore. They can choose to leave them but if they do so I will put the toys in a garbage bag and it will be donated to the church nursery or D.I. or Goodwill. You get the point. Well that night after going to bed we had a little visit. When James and I awoke there was a note on the dresser.
Not only was there a note but the ENTIRE house had been cleaned. Turns out our "Helper Fairies" set their alarm and awoke at 2 am to clean the entire house. I'm still amazed. Not only that the next day we were doing the rock in our yard and they all came out to help. Grabbing a shovel and working for a couple hours. They have been helping around the house. When I ask them to do something they get up and do it. I know that I will have to work diligently to help encourage this behavior, but I have to say I couldn't be happier with our children. Not sure how long this will last but so far they have done a fantastic job. That concludes this entry. Check back tomorrow for more. I have to go paint....and do laundry...and make the bed....and dust....

DIstance

2009-04-30T08:46:00.000-07:00

From the time I was little I would look forward to summer. It was then that we would go visit my grandparents and my aunt Becky. As I got older these trips became even more enjoyable. I have loved the time I have been able to spend with them. In particular my aunt Beck (name change is due the fact that after 25 years she finally decided to tell me she hates Becky). She was more like a sister than an aunt. When she went to school at Ricks we would go stay the weekends with her. When we would go visit her in Colorado I loved to just ride around in the many "cool cars" she had. In fact she even let me drive on of these when I got my license. After high school I lived with her just before getting married. From that time I have truly loved every event, every trip and any amount of time I have had to spend. Beck and her husband Mike and their sweet children will always hold a special place. They have moved away and while I am immensely happy for them, I can't help but feel a little selfish in wishing they hadn't gone so far. Vegas is a much easier drive to make than Alaska.

I want you both to know how much we love you. How grateful I am to call you family. You will be missed.

I was able to make a quick trip to Vegas the weekend before they left. It was great! I got to visit with them, my grandparents and my mom.

Sweet little Chase

Hippity Hoppity....

2009-04-13T10:47:00.000-07:00

Easter has come and gone once again. This year was the first, in a long time, that was not spent in Utah with my family. So, we spent it together with just us, Chris, our wonderful neighbors and our ward family. Saturday there was a ward Easter egg hunt and breakfast. We woke up to a beautiful rainy day...now it had been 85-90 degrees all week. Yet, the day we have an activity to attend it rains. Sigh...oh well. The kids never seem to notice or mind such things so off we went. We had a great time!

See if you can spot my kids!!

Mmmmm Sausage....

Then of course while the children slept the Easter Bunny stopped by and brought plenty of goodies. He also hid eggs both at our house and in the neighbors backyard. I think it's the Easter Bunny's attempt to show them what a joy children are and that it's time to have their own. They are so good to our kiddos. It's great to have such amazing neighbors!

They told Geoff that the Easter Bunny left a note telling them there were eggs in his backyard. After which he proceeded to tell them that the Easter bunny left a note telling him that if any little kids came knocking not to let them in the backyard. Of course the kids just ignored him and walked back there anyways. Silly Geoff.

And what could make this Easter even better you ask? How about an emergency trip to the dentist? While Walker was taking a bath he began to scream, as only Walker can, that his tooth hurt. He's had a pretty big cavity and I have been putting it off to avoid the trauma (mostly to me) of having him get "the shot". But he was in a lot of pain and so he willingly let James take him to his office. James said that Walker was the best child patient he's seen. He didn't cry AT ALL, not even one complaint. It's amazing what can be accomplished when mom isn't present.

Then we were off to church. On these occasions it's nice to have church at 2. I took some pics of the girls because the boys were both at the office. I had planned to take some of the boys after church but James ended up having to leave with Walker halfway through sacrament because once the numbness wore off he was pretty sore. So needless to say I have no pictures of the boys.

We had a wonderful Easter. We are so grateful for the Atoning sacrifice of the Savior. What a blessing it is!! We hope that your Easter was filled with happiness and a remembering of this great sacrifice.

Catching Up....

2009-04-03T08:30:00.001-07:00

This will probably be my longest blog ever! There has been so much going on. I kept telling myself, "Self...get on and blog or you're going to get behind." Unfortunately, myself tends to be a bit of a procrastinator and as such failed in these attempts. So that brings us here, with me posting the many events and pictures from last month. So, here we go.

As you saw in my previous post I went to Utah for the blessing of Sallie and Jesse's sweet little babe. I had a marvelous time. I truly love the time I spend with my family and find myself always wishing for just a little more.

Mady, Skylee, and Ryder

Off to church

While the kids were playing outside I went out to take a few pictures. Sky and Teagan were eating it up! They were thoroughly enjoying having their picture taken. Ryder, on the other hand is all boy and therefore had no interest in having his picture taken!
One thing that worked out quite nicely is that my kids were there visiting their dad so they were able to come over and play with their cousins. It's been so fun now that they are old enough to play together. They always enjoy their time together and usually find they don't want to go home.

Meanwhile, back at the ranch....James kept plenty busy with Levi and Kalysta....and the yard. Kalysta is currently taking cheer classes and they had a parade all the way out in Scottsdale that Saturday. So James got them up at 6 am, brushed up on his hair stylin' skills and headed out. What a great dad! Not only did he do all that I mentioned before but once there he walked the entire length of the parade alongside Kalysta with Levi on his shoulders, taking pictures and video all along the way! He had a few blisters at the end due to the fact that he wore flip flops (silly James). Then he came home and continued to work diligently on the yard.

Kalysta was NOT happy about the cowboy hat.

My Texas Boys!

We also celebrated our 2 year anniversary this last month. We went out with some good friends, Goeff and Lacey, who also happen to be our neighbors! We went to Kona Grill out in Scottsdale. Kona is still one of my all time favorite places to eat. Macadamia nut chicken....mmmmmm. James, of course had all the sushi he could consume. It turned out to be a great evening.

It never fails, in every group of pictures there is one of these. I keep hoping that every time he sees them he'll see how silly he looks and will stop. This, however, has not been the case.

The two following nights my sweet husband was kind enough to let me go out with some of my good friends. The first night was with Aubree and Vanessa. We went and had some yummy mexican food and then went to see Taken - great movie, you will never let your kids leave the house after seeing it.

The next evening I went out with Aubree and Nicole. Nicole will me moving soon to complete her husband's residency. I have really loved getting to know so many wonderful people here in Arizona. I treasure the friendships I have made and will miss Nicole. She has promised to visit often and we'll hold you to it Nicole! I'm not sure what it is about time out with the girls that at times makes us digress a bit? Whatever it is, I love it. I love to be silly and giggly. Thanks girls for some quality girl time. Love it!
I think this is Aubree and I attempting to, uh, dance?

Of course we had to take a few with James' other lovely lady ;-)...
I hope you were able to get through all that. Funny thing is I have 3 or 4 more posts to go, but think I will wait and do those tomorrow. This is enough for now.

Sweet Baby Axil

2009-03-12T15:33:00.000-07:00

I had the opportunity to go to Utah a few weeks back to attend the blessing of my newest nephew Axil. He's such a sweet little man. Sallie and Jesse braved the onslaught of pictures I forced them to take, in between preparing for the blessing, getting their twin girls ready and making food for the luncheon after. What an amazing pair! I will post about my super fun weekend later. For now I wanted to post the pictures I took. Now I am not, repeat, am NOT a photographer. The color is off, as is the lighting. They're a little out of focus in some cases as well. BUT, I LOVE to take pictures. It also helps to have willing subjects who are so easy to photograph. I am constantly taken aback with how beautiful my little sister is. (You should know Sallie, secretly we all hate you.) Not to mention Jesse is the perfect compliment to her. The epitome of "tall, dark and handsome". Now, one day I do plan on taking a class and oh yeah...buying a flash. Then you may judge my pictures. Until then, no dice. Sallie, hopefully you've checked your e-mail, the pictures are there. :o)

This is the Black and White Version

Color and light.

The twins had a picture on the drum...Axil didn't fit as well. ;-)

My sister was such an angel for braving this one.
Thanks Mike ;-)

2 Years and Counting

2009-03-10T08:36:00.000-07:00

Today James and I celebrate our 2nd wedding anniversary. This morning I was lying in bed listening to James alarm clock play "Rollin' Down the River of Love" and had to laugh. James and I had what you call a "whirlwind romance"....literally. I met James online shortly after Thanksgiving of 2006. We had our first date on December 8th, we were engaged January 13th and married March 10th. Anyone who has awaited their wedding day knows how slow the time seems to move. Yet, as soon as we are through with the I do's time seems to move at a much faster speed. I remember that day and the days leading up to it with perfect clarity, which for me is a rarity. I remember the day that James purposed. How insistent he was that I come to visit in Las Vegas that weekend. The wonderful evening he planned. We went to see Phantom of the Opera at the Venetian after which we took a gondola ride on the little river that ran throught the casino.
The great thing about that picture is if you look close enough you can see the ring box in James pocket. When the boat got to the end of the water way to turn around James stood up, nearly turning the boat over, then got on his knee and asked me to share my life with him. People were cheering all around us. It felt like a scene straight out of a sappy chic flick and I loved every moment!

As we would have to go through a long process (still waiting) to be sealed we decided to get married in Laguna Beach. Shortly after making this decision, my little brother decided that he and his fiance would also like to be married there, on the same day. So James and I actually attended their wedding just hours before our own. It was a truly memorable day. Plus all our family only had to travel once and were able to see both our weddings.
We also decided that it would be "fun" to take the kids to Disneyland the day before the wedding. We wanted them to feel that this was as much about their happiness as it was our own. So what better place to do this than The Happiest Place on Earth right?
Unfortunately half way through the day Kalysta fell and hit her face on a short metal fence. So James and Kalysta spent the next 8 hours in the E.R. and Kalysta had a beautiful black eye and stitches. By the time we both made it back to the hotel room we were exhausted.
The next morning we awoke, tired but excited. The day couldn't have been better. The weather was beautiful. We were surrounded by our family and closest friends. We stood barefoot in the sand and knew, without a single doubt that we had found true, lasting happiness. The ceremony was sweet and simple. We received good counsel from the bishop. We knew that there would be tough days ahead. Blending families in never an easy process, but we have been extremely blessed. The last 2 years have been ones of laughter, love, learning, compromise, fun, forgiving and never, never giving up. I look forward to every day I get to spend with James. I look forward to the day I will kneel in the Holy Temple and bind my life to his forever. Then, and only then, can our eternal lives together begin. Here's to forever....

We also had a combined reception dinner with my brother. We had a such a fun time. We even cut the cake, smashing it in each others faces and James braved the whole embarrassing fiasco of retrieving the garter. Ok, so it was more that I was embarrassed. If you were there you would understand why. The picture doesn't even do it justice.
One week after our wedding we headed off to Hawaii. We had so much fun we almost decided not to come home. We spent a few days on Oahu and then the remainder of the time in Kauai. We went scuba diving. Ate lots and lots of yummy food. Laid on the beach. Hit up the Polynesian Cultural Center. Visited some family (my cousin J.D. and his cute wife were living there at the time) Visited a local church and spent some time at the Laie temple. Visited Pearl Harbor, which everyone should do if ever given the chance. And just enjoyed being together in such a beautiful place. We can't wait to go back!

Simply put, looking back on the last 2 years there is little I would change. I feel extremely blessed to have such a devoted husband. His family is his first priority. He has a strong and firm testimony. He is just so much fun to be around. I'm pretty sure I will spend the coming years much like the last 2 asking myself how did I get so lucky?

Blessed

2009-03-09T09:24:00.000-07:00

As most of you who read this blog know, 2 weeks ago our ward was split. James and I had been in the Cactus Lane Ward for just a short 7 months. I was in Utah when James sent me a text letting me know the ward had just been split. We knew this was coming. Yet, I had such mixed feelings when I read those words. We are now members of the newly formed ward, the White Tank Mountain Ward. I have been a part of a ward split one other time. But I wanted to put down my thoughts and feelings about this process. It seemed to have more of an impact this time around.

Maybe it's that I'm older, maybe more involved, that this whole process became so real to me. I wasn't there when they announced who our new bishop would be. However, when Bishop Garrett came to our home to issue me a calling I received a very strong personal witness that he was in fact called of God. He is who our Heavenly Father has chosen to lead our ward. It was an awe inspiring moment for me. As silly as that may sound there is no other way to describe it. Then, on Sunday I reveled in the way our sacrament meeting ran so smoothly. There was no craziness, no chaos, absolutely no confusion. The bishop led our meeting as if he had done it one hundred times before. As he read the names of the new auxiliary leaders, scout leaders, primary teachers, choir director, organist and so on we each raised our arms and sustained each of these members. I was one of these. I have been called to serve as the 2nd counselor in the Relief Society Presidency.

Yesterday was one I won't soon forget. After a wonderful sacrament meeting, James was set apart by the stake as the membership clerk and was then given a sweet blessing and was told of the importance of the work he would do. Then in Relief Society we were asked to stand and bear our own testimonies. As I stood, I bore testimony of the truthfulness of the gospel, the church and the love our Heavenly Father has for each one of us. I bore a sweet and personal knowledge of the Atonement and it's healing power. I bore witness of the living Christ whose life and ministry were the perfect example of love and charity by which each of us should pattern our own lives. I wanted every sister to know that they are Daughters of God and that there is power in that knowledge. While the world is crumbling around us we are blessed to be anchored firmly to the truth. I wanted them to know that there is so much we have to be joyful about. I love the scripture in which Lehi, speaking to his son Jacob says, "Men are that they might have joy" I believe that Heavenly Father truly wants us to be happy and that this is one of His divine purposes for us, to find joy and happiness in this and the life to come. I bore testimony of the divine organization of the Relief Society and it's purpose. I loved the article in this month's Ensign in which Julie B. Beck, Relief Society Genereal president was interviewed. In this she says that as Releif Society sisters, we are united first and foremost because of our faith in Christ. When Joseph Smith organized the Relief Society he said that we were not only to look after the poor but also to save souls and this is still our purpose.

I was humbled as I listened to the testimonies of our new president, 1st couselor and secretary. Then to hear almost every sister stand and bear her own special witness of the divine calling of our new bishopric and our new Relief Society presidency. At the end of this meeting the bishopric came in and set each of us apart. This has always been something I have loved. I was set apart by the bishop, his first couselor, and my sweet husband. I was also given a beautiful blessing by our new bishop. I came home yesterday with a strengthened testimony of the pure and absolute love of my Father in Heaven.

Oh Blah Blah...

2009-02-25T18:29:00.000-08:00

After doing my best to stomach Oblahblah's rant last night I felt it only appropriate to remind all of you Obama worshipers just what you signed on for. It's sad that even the Brit's can see what we're in for, yet all the mindless, spineless, passionless drones will willing follow this sunbstanceless man until he has done so much damage that there will be no way to undo it. At that point saying "I told you so" will ring hollow and bring no satisfaction. I love my country. It sickens me to know what lies ahead, for myself and my husband, my children and my grandchildren. What incentives will they have to work hard, when there will no longer be reward, or the opportunity to improve their lives? I fear for what will become of this country I love so much.

What Obama's victory really is:

A victory for the hysterical Oprah Winfrey, the mad racist preacher Jeremiah Wright, the mainstream media who abandoned any sense of objectivity long ago, Europeans and Canadians who despise America largely because they depend on her, comics who claim to be dangerous and fearless but would not dare attack genuinely powerful special interest groups.

A victory for Obama-worshippers everywhere. A victory for the cult of the cult. A man who has done little with his life but has written about his achievements as if he had found the cure for cancer in between winning a marathon and building a nuclear reactor with his teeth. Victory for style over substance, hyperbole over history, rabble-raising over reality. A victory for Hollywood, the most dysfunctional community in the world. Victory for Streisand, Spielberg, Soros and Sarandon. Victory for those who prefer welfare to will and interference to independence. For those who settle for group think and herd mentality rather than those who fight for individual initiative and the right to be out of step with meager political fashion. Victory for a man who is no friend of freedom.

He and his people have already stated that media has to be controlled so as to be balanced, without realizing the extraordinary irony within that statement. Like most liberal zealots, the Obama worshippers constantly speak of Fox and Limbaugh, when the vast bulk of television stations and newspapers are drastically liberal and anti-conservative.

Senior Democrat Chuck Schumer said that just as pornography should be censored, so should talk radio. In other words, one of the few free and open means of popular expression may well be cornered and beaten by bullies who even in triumph cannot tolerate any criticism and opposition. A victory for those who believe the state is better qualified to raise children than the family, for those who prefer teachers' unions to teaching and for those who are naively convinced that if the West is sufficiently weak towards its enemies, war and terror will dissolve as quickly as the tears on the face of a leftist celebrity. A victory for social democracy even after most of Europe and Canada has come to the painful conclusion that social democracy leads to mediocrity, failure, unemployment, inflation, higher taxes and economic stagnation. A victory for intrusive lawyers, banal sentimentalists, social extremists and urban snobs.

Congratulations America!

Happy Hearts

2009-02-16T16:48:00.001-08:00

We had a wonderful Valentines Day. My girlfriend Summer and I hit the spa while the boys spent the morning golfing. There is nothing better than a day at the spa, followed by dinner with an amazingly charming, slightly sun-burned, yet extremely sexy man. Not to mention great company and good food.

Rick and Summer Ashton

Me and my hot date

Summer and I outside The Yard House... I love that girl!

Even my kids embraced the Valentines spirit by snuggling up together. (Levi and Kalysta were with their mom)

I am so lucky to have a husband who just gets me. He truly makes my heart happy.

DIY Network

2009-02-11T08:25:00.000-08:00

James loves the DIY (Do It Yourself) Network. It seemed that every time we climbed into bed at night he would turn on DIY. Which was fine with me...it put me right to sleep. As most know I'm not a do-it-yourselfer. I'm more of a buy-what-I-need-or-hire-someone-to-do-it..er. James however really enjoys building things himself, as I have come to learn. One Sunday while sitting in sacrament meeting James hands me a piece of paper with a sketch of what he would like to do in his office, to which I say, "looks good hon", thinking this would be done sometime in the future.

Fast forward 2 weeks. My little brothers come for a visit. I'm upstairs when I hear what sounds like a chainsaw turn on downstairs. I get downstairs and find my brother John cutting a hole in my wall. When I ask James what he's doing he said, "Remember, we talked about this. I'm building my cabinets." Apparently he figured that showing me a drawing while I was barely paying attention (remember..4 kids and sacrament meeting) qualifies as a discussion. I guess when he told John and Bud what his plans were they said lets do it. I'll give it to men, they're certainly not indecisive. So basically I worried about the gaping hole in the wall that led to my garage. I envisioned spiders and all other creepy crawlies that would soon invade my home. BUT James finished his project, as promised, in record time. Not only that, it looks amazing. So I now have a list of projects that I fully expect the same amount of commitment to.

This is what I found when I got downstairs.

Apparently it's still "FUN" to punch a hole in the wall.

No one ever gets tired of seeing the MAN POSE.

Somehow the words "I Told You So" comes to mind.

Halfway done. At this point I had decided in the future I would let him do any project he wanted.

Finished. I think it turned out beautifully. Especially the screen saver with
"James Simmons".

Thanks to my handy husband, thanks to my little brothers and thanks to DIY Network. Oh and here is my absolute favorite picture. It proves my point that boys never really mature passed the age of 16.

The Original Prince Charming

2009-02-05T13:40:00.000-08:00

"One Day I Will Find My Prince Charming, But My Daddy Will Always Be My King." I saw this quote once and have to say that that pretty much sums up the way daughters feel about their dad's. I know that there is something so unique about the relationship between fathers and daughters. "Daddy" is a word that will instantly recall many different things. It's cold pizza for breakfast, or the occasional brownie. Building snow forts, card board box forts and tree forts. It's a strong hand placed firmly on the back of your bike with just enough force not to let you fall while slowly letting go as you learn your first form of independence. It's bear hugs and tickle torture. It's loving you enough to let you fall and being there to dust you off and put you back on your feet. It's kisses when you cry and a calming voice when you are anxious. It is never giving up faith in you. But mostly Daddy reminds us of powerful and unconditional love.

Last night was the "Daddy/Daughter" dance at the girls school. It was so sweet to see my two little girls so excited to get dressed up and go "out" with their dad's. Chris was able to fly in for the night just to take Brooklyn to the dance. It meant so much to her. They had a fantastic time and danced the night away. I am so grateful to James and Chris who are and always will be "Kings" in the eyes of their little girls.

Cardinal Cuties

2009-01-30T07:36:00.000-08:00

As most know I have never been a Cardinals Fan....until now. True, I have never in my lifetime supported or cheered this team. Except when watching Jerry McGuire. I also never really thought I would see this team make it to the playoffs, let alone the Super Bowl! However, we now live in Arizona and have felt the excitement of having our "home team" make it to the biggest game of the year. So for now we will happily jump on the bandwagon to cheer on our Arizona Cardinals. Plus, I know all too well what it's like to have my team go in as the underdog.

So, today the kids were supposed to dress up in Cardinals gear for school. I did not want to buy a bunch of Cardinals shirts that would never again be used so I bought some $3 red and black shirts and some fabric paint and we made our own. I did the lettering and James painted on the Cardinals. I think they turned out pretty cute. Here's hoping the Cardinals make history!

I LOVE L.A.

2009-01-24T11:05:00.000-08:00

Lakers that is. As you read before we were able to score some great tickets for the Lakres/Jazz game which I gave to my dad for Christmas. With the one stipulation that I HAD to be one of the 3 people he took with him. So on January second my dad, two brothers and I met in L.A. We had such an amazing time. There is nothing like a live NBA game. ESPECIALLY when it's the Lakers. Not to mention I quite enjoy watching the games with those 3. To make it even better we got to watch them play the Utah Jazz. There are few teams we enjoy watching the Lakers beat more than the Jazz. We spent the early afternoon at the Team LA store, stocked up on goods for the game and then headed back over to Staples to watch the game. I love spending time with my family any chance I get. This was no exception. I want to give a big thanks to my AMAZING HUSBAND for taking the day off work to be with the kids and letting me enjoy this time with my family. You are the best ever!!

John, Bud and Dad in front of Staples
Me -N- My Dad just before tip-off.
Me -N- My little brothers.

It was a great game, especially with the 2 Jazz fans directly in front of us. We were courteous of course, I just made sure the one sitting closest to me wouldn't be able to hear anything but my voice in his head for at least a week. To top it off while in the airport getting ready to head home I just happened to strike up a conversation with a sweet woman that turned out to be Derek Fisher's mother. She was a sweetheart and gave my dad an autographed picture. Great end to a great weekend. Oh, I do have to post one picture of the Jazz, especially for you Charity.

Christmas in Paradise

2009-01-08T18:16:00.000-08:00

This is my overdue Christmas post. Christmas was different for us this year. This is the first year I did not spend Christmas with my children. It was, to say the least, bittersweet. I was very excited for them to spend Christmas with their dad and mom. I realize these memories for them are essential and will never be forgotten. Yet I was also sad, but for selfish reasons. I love this time of year. For me it is truly a magical, sweet time. The magic that is Chrismas, for me, revolves soley around my children. To see the excitement and joy at the wonderment of the season in their eyes makes me a believer once again. I don't just speak of the belief in Santa and elves, flying reindeer and magic top hats, but of the belief in the great plan of salvation. The greatest sacrifice given to mankind. I love to read the Christmas story to our children, to bear testimony of the love their Savior has for each of them individually. To share with them the love that their Father in Heaven also has, so much so that he gave his Son that we may all once again have the opportunity not just to live with him but to have provided a way back, especially when we stumble. I truly love Christmas. Now knowing that this would be a bit difficult for me, my sweet husband decided that he would take me out of town. He planned a trip to a beach house in Newport for Christmas, but not just that, he was able to get some amazing tickets for the Christmas day game between my Lakers and the Celtics (boooo). We had such a great time!! I couldn't have asked for a better gift. James could barely contain the surprise himself. In fact I'm surprised he did!! We thoroughly enjoyed our time together in California and decided that every other year we will take a trip. Home for the holidays without the kiddos isn't much fun so we figured this would be a great opportunity to spend time together.

ME opening our Lakers tickets!!
Here we are at the game. We had fantastic seats (thanks Steve)! We even got to sit next to several Celtics fans which made the win even more rewarding!!
Bynum with a sweet dunk...so good to have him back.
My boy Kobe. Best player in the league.
I can't say it enough...great, great game! Even Santa took time off to see the game...
We took the opportunity to take some pictures out by the beach. We did, however, freeze our booties off. It was freezing! Which would explain why we were the only people on the beach!
This was taken in the beach house. I know you don't see any of the actual house but it was such a beautiful place. The beach was right outside the back door.
Like I said, Santa made sure not to disappoint. I made the kids wait until James got home from work to open their gifts. I think they just about keeled over with excitement. Having to walk by all those presents and not be able to touch them!! I of course enjoyed every moment. We hope that your holiday season was as sweet as ours.
Our babies!

The Face of Evil

2009-01-06T07:45:00.000-08:00

As most of you know, Obama made an announcement that he is going to sign the Freedom Of Choice Act. This will allow all types of abortions including partial birth abortion, also allowing babies who are born alive due to botched up late term abortions to be set aside without any medical care or nourishment and left to die. Most of these babies have no medical problems and the ones that do have conditions such as cleft palate, club feet, things that are correctable. Still, they are murdered in the most inhuman way. These babies feel everything that is happening to them. There is more mercy for dogs who are put to sleep. This bill will also make it mandatory for doctors and nurses to perform these murderous acts even if they do not wish to do so. It will eradicate state and federal abortion laws that the majority of Americans support and prevent states from enacting similar protective measures in the future. This act will also allow underage teens to have an abortion, even partial birth abortion, without parental consent OR knowledge.

Please take a moment to go to this website http://www.fightfoca.com/
Sign the petition and let Obama know that most people in this country still have great love and respect for the sanctity of life. There are many more implications to this horrific bill than just infanticide. To read more visit:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_of_Choice_Act
and you can read the actual bill here:http://thomas.loc.gov/cgi-bin/query/z?c108:S.2020 :

The Catholic church has stated that should this bill be passed they would be forced to shut down all of their hospitals as they could not take part in performing abortions. This is a very honorable and bold move by the church. May we also be willing to do what is necessary to fight this evil act. Regardless of the cost. Every human life is sacred and worth fighting for.

Happy Birthday Walker!!

2009-01-03T17:03:00.000-08:00

Yes, this post is as late as the others. With the craziness of the holidays and the fact that we have 4, yes 4, birthdays in December I've been running a little behind. Nonetheless I want to wish my little man a very Happy 6th Birthday. Walker was born on December 30th at 2:17 in the afternoon. He weighed 8lbs. 10 oz. and was 21 in long....he also had a massive cranium, or should I say has. Walker is such a tenderhearted little boy. He has always loved to hug, kiss and snuggle which I have taken full advantage of the last 6 years. It seems odd to me that he is so big. I still see him as the cute little toe head toddler who could brighten my day with just a smile. He's a bit of a momma's boy which isn't always a great thing and I have been doing my best to loosen the apron strings. Walker is a great little brother. He loves his sisters and his brother. Walker is very meticulous in everything he does. He started Kindergarten this year and I swear the boy has better handwriting than I do. He is a perfectionist to the core. I love this sweet boy and am grateful for his little smile that still can melt my heart.

This picture was taken just after I found out I was pregnant with Walker. We were visiting Disneyworld and were so thrilled....we'd done a lot to get him here.

Uh, yes I know that looking at the difference in our skin tone one might wonder if he was mine but indeed he was. Walker had this crazy hair that stood straight up. So eventually I just started throwing some gel in it....good thing the "spiky" hair look was in.
Here's my sweet little squeeker!!
Walker was a toe head for a couple years. I loved it and was sad to see it go!!
Walker was a very, very happy little boy. He found enjoyment from even the simplest things and he loved to be outside like he is here in American Fork Canyon.

Walker loved his trains!! He also loved to change out the batteries all by himself.

For a short time I decided to grow out his hair and he had the traditional "bowl cut". I thought it was pretty cute but eventually I went back to the spiky hair after some persuasion.

Walker at the beach 2 years ago. He loves playing in the sand.

Like I said in his little blurb, Walker has a stoic look which you can clearly see in this picture of him and his kite. Walker didn't want anyone to help him fly it.

One thing we have found is that this little boy is extremely accident prone. I have strongly contemplated putting him in a bubble (not sure I've completely abandoned the idea just yet!) When he had just learned to crawl down our stairs he would constantly miss the last step and tumble head first to the tile floor below. It seemed that as soon as his head healed it would happen all over again. He had a perpetual goose egg on his head. At age 2 he was attacked by a swarm of yellow jackets who, fortunately for him bit and didn't sting. However, it was still very painful. At age 3 he was bit in the face by a dog. At age 4 he was in the hospital because he had a lymph node that got infected and ended up requiring a small surgery to drain it. At age 5 he first went camping with his grandma and while roasting marshmallows somehow managed to drop a flaming marshmallow on his eye and then just a couple months ago split his head open on a bed post. Never a dull moment with this boy! Here is a picture of him in the hospital last year. Still happy as can be.

Walker started Kindergarten this year as well. He loves school and absolutely adores his teacher Mrs. Encarnacion. She tells me that he is such a tender-hearted little boy and just loves his hugs....which he always has for her! The teachers aid while in James' office one day said that Walker was a model student. Here's to hoping that never changes!
We love our sweet Walker and wish you a very Happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday To James!!

2008-12-29T15:21:00.000-08:00

Yes, this post is late as well....too much going on in December I can't keep up. James turned 33 on December 23. I feel that this is a perfect opportunity to say a little something about the amazing man I am lucky to be sharing my life with. He has so many great qualities. Among them are his dedication to his family, his sheer willpower to never, not ever give up, his great love for his Saviour, his never ending generosity. He is so patient with our kids which in my book makes him an amazing father!!He loves life, he is not afraid to try the new and unknown. If he commits to anything he will put his whole heart and soul into it. He knows what is truly important. He leads our family in faith and with great humility. He has a great love and respect for the gospel. He is very, very playful. He loves to tickle and tease (ok, so maybe there are times I wish he would tone down this great "quality"). He is always willing to help out, whether it be with the cleaning, cooking or helping the kids with homework and never does he complain. He willingly sees past my faults (which are many I'm afraid) and continue loving me anyway. He is ALWAYS paying me compliments...I LOVE it! He is very affectionate and romantic. He does everything he can to make me happy...and I am. Happy Birthday to my sweet husband! I don't have very many pictures of James as a child but have posted the few that I do have. He was such a cute kid! No wonder he's such a hottie now!!

James and his sister Monia. James is 2 here.

James with his mom and sis at age 3.

James age 4
James at age 14 on a scout trip in Mexico...see if you can find him.

James in his "Glory Days". Who says, "White Men Can't Jump?" (He's the one catching the ball)
The Temple Wildcats went to state that year and had the opportunity to play in Texas Stadium...which is now no more.

James at age 20 on his way to the MTC, with his favorite cousin Becca.

James and his friend Ashley in the airport getting ready to head to Brasil.

James served the first half of his mission in Brazil...he said he felt tall there.

After contracting multiple parasites in Brasil he left the beautiful 3rd world coastal lands of Brasil.....

To finish up his mission here in Canada....needless to say it was a bit of a climate change.

James and one of his most favorite people, his grandma. Ruth was always so good to James. We miss her very, very much.

James at his UNLV Dental School Graduation

James and I this month. We always enjoy spending time together. We do this as much as we possibly can. James says it's one his most favorite things to do. I agree.

Just before he became dinner :-(
Poor, poor Mr. Lobster....

James and I on his birthday. We had a great evening. We went to Red Lobster, where James consumed more seafood than I thought possible for one single human being, while I dutifully held my nose and smiled. ( I hate seafood, and especially the smell) We then went and did a little shopping before coming home to open his gifts. It was just the 2 of us this year but we had a great time! James got his much coveted PS3, some games to go with it...namely Call of Duty (thanks mom and dad) which he has spent little time away from. I also gave him a Banzai Olive tree, a statue of Joseph and Hyrum Smith and clothes. Happy Birthday James!!

Happy Birthday Levi!!

2008-12-23T08:44:00.000-08:00

Yes, I know that I'm a few days late with this post. However, we want to wish Levi a very Happy Birthday! His birthday was on the 20th and he turned 6 years old!! Levi is such a fun kid. Lately he says the funniest things, and the best part is he's dead serious so we must try our best not to laugh. His teacher tells me just how funny he is in class as well. Levi started Kindergarten this year and loves school and his sweet teacher Mrs. Taylor (homework, not so much). Some of the things Levi enjoys are playing...anything...with his brother. Also, he loves the wii and has started playing basketball and loves it. He is such a happy little boy and his most favorite thing in the world right now is his DAD. He follows him around and whatever James is doing, Levi wants to be a part of it. We love our little Levi and want to say a big Happy Birthday!!

Levi and his mom.
Levi, Halloween 2004.
Levi and his grandpa Mallory
Levi loved Circus Circus where this was taken. Oh, and ice cream too!!
Levi and his most favorite person...his daddy.
Levi loves swimming, this year he learned to swim without the life jacket!! We were so happy!!
I had to post this picture because one of the funniest things about Levi is that he falls asleep EVERYWHERE, we constantly find him sound asleep in the strangest places.
Levi on his first day of kindergarten.
Happy Birthday to our sweet, funny little man!!

Christmas Party

2008-12-17T21:51:00.000-08:00

Last weekend James and I flew to California for the PDS owner doctor Christmas Party. We had a much better time than expected. The hotel was beautiful and right on the beach. I just wish it hadn't been so cold and rainy. We enjoyed good food, good company and we even did a little dancing.

Summer and I on the plane.
James and Steve Thorne

James and I with the Ashton's and the Cockrell's

The best part however was the raffle. Upon arrival we were both given 5 tickets each to place in whichever drawing we wished to enter. There were 5 or 6 categories and James placed all of his in electronics and I (knowing that Steve Thorne was a Lakers fan) placed mine in the sporting events. The first raffle was the electronics and James was the second one called!! He won a digital camera.

Joe and James with their raffle prizes.
Joe, Patty, James and I

However, while James and I were out dancing the waiter threw my tickets away, so when they did the raffle for the sporting event I had no idea if they called my number or not. (There were 2 numbers called that went unclaimed and I'd like to believe one was mine) The doctor sitting behind us, Dr. Pham, won one of those prizes and sure enough....Lakers tickets. Not just any tickets, 18th row from the floor and to the left of the basket, 4 of them. Oh and did I mention they're playing the Jazz? I told James to ask Dr. Pham if he would be willing to trade. James asked but Dr. Pham said no. So I went over and asked just to see the tickets. We talked for a bit about the Lakers and what a fun game it would be and I congratulated him and left. A few minutes later however he came back and said he'd be willing to trade!!! It totally made my night!! A big, big thank you to Dr. Pham. I will be giving the tickets to my dad for Christmas with one stipulation, he has to take me to the game. James and I had a wonderful trip and are grateful to be a part of the PDS family.
Dr. Pham, me and the Lakers tickets!
James and I in the courtyard of the hotel.

Cabin Fever

2008-12-08T20:16:00.000-08:00

We had the opportunity to spend the weekend in Flagstaff at a friend of James' family cabin. It was beautiful!! We had such a great time. My parents, grandparents and aunt and uncle and their kiddos were all able to join us. We fished, rode quads, played outside, ate lots of yummy food, even played a little pool. Most of all we just enjoyed being together. There was a little one room shack that was built in the 1800's on the property and we decided that this would be a great place to take some fun pictures. Of course I took a million and tried my best to narrow it down. A big thank you to the Laizure family, we had an amazing time.

Happy Birthday Brooklyn!!!

2008-12-02T19:13:00.000-08:00

My baby girl turned 10 yesterday! I wanted to post this yesterday but alas, I was all partied out and wasn't able to get to it. Anyhow, I CAN NOT believe she is 10. As I was looking through old pictures I was reminded of all the fun stages of Brooklyn's life. Brooklyn has always been such a joy. I could not remember a time in her life that she was difficult. Wait! Yes, there was a time...she refused to come out! She decided to grace the world with her presence 10 days after her due date. I guess if that is all the trouble she ever causes I'll take it. In all seriousness we have been blessed to have this kind-hearted, beautiful, gracious, intelligent, dramatic, dependable little girl in our home. While I don't look forward to her getting older, I can't wait to see the amazing young woman she will soon be. We love you Brooklyn!! Happy Birthday! Here are some pictures of our sweet girl through the years!

Brooklyn was born at 10:03 a.m. at UMC in Las Vegas. She was 8 lbs. 9 oz. and 20 in. long. Among the people present at her birth were her Great Grandma and Grandpa Quillen, Great Aunt Beck, Grammy Suzie, Aunt Charity and of course mom and dad! Brooklyn was both the first grandchild and great grandchild (as was I).

My little cheerleader! Although she has no interest in that now. She loves to play volleyball.

Brooklyn at age 1.

No one could pout like Brooklyn. But, of course at 2 that's a given!

Brooklyn at age 3. This was one of my favorite costumes on her. She was such a cutie!!

She has been the best big sis! Brooklyn insisted on staying the night in the hospital with us. She was so excited to have a little brother.

Love this picture! Age 5

She loves dressing as a witch, she does it almost every year. Age 6

Dancing Queen!! Age 7

I wanted to post these 3 at age 8. The best thing about her turning 8 was her baptism and I wish I had those pictures to post. Her dad has them and I know he will give me copies as soon as he can (hint hint Chris). As you can see, Brooklyn decided to cut her hair. Not because she wanted shorter hair but to donate the hair to Locks of Love. I had my very good friend Staci, a cancer survivor herself, do this for her.

She looks so grown up here. She's aways been very tall. I'm pretty sure she's going to pass me up here in a few short years!

And here is our Birthday Girl sitting with the goods. I think her favorite gift this year was the purple iPod her daddy gave her. Happy Birthday to our Beautiful little girl!

Head Wounds

2008-11-17T07:30:00.000-08:00

Last night the kids were messing around and Walker got pushed into the post on Kalysta's bed and split his head open pretty good. Now, I was downstairs when my sweet, a bit overly dramatic daughter comes running to tell me what had just happened. I will give her credit, she did her best to compose herself to let me know he had fallen and there was blood everywhere ;-). We decided to try to clean it up and use super glue. We did have some prilocaine cream that helped a little. James was going to stitch it himself but I couldn't remember where I had packed all his stuff and so like I said we settled on super glue. I am now wishing I would've just taken him to the E.R. The glue didn't quite hold together as well as I would've liked. Hopefully it won't scar too bad. Luckily, it will be covered with hair. My only question is does anyone know where I can get a bubble to put my son in? These things ALWAYS happen to Walker. Always...

Daddy's Girl

2008-11-15T14:14:00.000-08:00

I had to post this picture I took of James and Kalysta at Disneyland. She was so sad that she wasn't tall enough to ride the giant orange swings and California Screamin' at the California Adventure park. Nothing like a hug from dad to make it all better.

Dancing Queens and a Rumble in the Jungle

2008-11-14T08:50:00.000-08:00

Last night our little Drama Queens put on a show for us. I remember doing this very thing as a kid. Charity and I would make up plays and involve all of our younger siblings and then display our various talents for our adoring fans (a.k.a mom and dad). Now the torch has been passed and WE are the adoring fans. Of course, who can help but cheer on these talented little ladies?

Not to be outdone, the boys put on a show of their own. Completely unscripted. Although it's a scene they've all but perfected these days. I call it "Rumble in the Jungle". It shows daily, every hour on the hour.

A Must Read

2008-11-07T07:53:00.000-08:00

I came across a talk that was given by President Benson before he became the prophet. The democratic senator from Arkansas at the time, Senator John McClellan, had the conference address by Elder Benson entered into congressional record. It is interesting to note that this talk was given back in April of 1968...40 years ago. I am only going to put a small part as it is very long. You can (and should) read the entire thing HERE

No people can maintain freedom unless their political institutions are founded upon faith in God and belief in the existence of moral law. God has endowed, men with certain inalienable rights, and no legislature and no majority, however great, may morally limit or destroy these. The function of government is to protect life, liberty, and property, and anything more or less than this is usurpation and oppression.

I do not believe the greatest threat to our future is from bombs or guided missiles. I do not think our civilization will die that way. I think it will die when we no longer care, when the spiritual forces that make us wish to be right and noble die in the hearts of men, when we disregard the importance of law and order.

If American freedom is lost, if America is destroyed, if our blood-bought freedom is surrendered, it will be because of Americans. What's more, it will probably not be only the work of subversive and criminal Americans. The Benedict Arnolds will not be the only ones to forfeit our freedom.

"At what point, then, is the approach of danger to be expected?" asked Abraham Lincoln, and he answered, "If it ever reaches us, it must spring up among us. It cannot come from abroad. If destruction be our lot, we must ourselves be its author and finisher; as a nation of freemen, we must live through all time or die by suicide." (Springfield, Illinois, January 27, 1837.)

If America is destroyed, it may be by Americans who salute the flag, sing the national anthem, march in patriotic parades, cheer Fourth of July speakers, normally good Americans, but Americans who fail to comprehend what is required to keep our country strong and free. Americans who have been lulled away into a false security.

Our priceless heritage is threatened today as never before in our lifetime: from without by the forces of Godless Communism, and at home by our complacency and by the insidious forces of the Socialist-Communist conspiracy, with the help of those who would abandon the ancient landmarks set by our fathers and take us down the road to destruction. It was Alexander Hamilton who warned that "nothing is more common than for a free people, in times of heat and violence, to gratify momentary passions, by letting into the government, principles and precedents which afterwards prove fatal to themselves." (Alexander Hamilton and the Founding of the Nation, p. 462.)

--The United States should be a bastion of real freedom. We should not support the world's greatest evil, the Godless, Socialist-Communist conspiracy that seeks to destroy all we hold dear as a great Christian nation and to promote insidiously the breakdown of law and order and the erosion of our morality.

As American citizens who love freedom, we must return to a respect for national morality, respect for law and order. There is no other way of safety for us and our posterity. The hour is late; the time is short. We must begin now, in earnest, and invite God's blessings on our efforts.

It is time for us to start fighting for what is right. It will not be easy. But we must remember that good will always win the day. We must not despair or fear. We must fervently pray that the leader of this nation will make wise choices, but if he does not we must lift our voices in opposition. We must continue to pray, live righteous lives, love our neighbors (even if they are democrats), spread the gospel, study our scriptures, be an example to the world of righteous living. I still believe in the goodness of this great nation. I believe that God will bless and comfort us. I am grateful to be an American...still.

Job Search

2008-11-05T07:42:00.000-08:00

I'm off to look for a job. We'll need it to make up the for the massive tax increase James will start paying January 20th. Do not for one moment think that the Bush tax cuts will be allowed to "expire" as Obama has promised. They will be rolled back immediately and thus I need to find a job.

After watching President Bush give his speech this morning I realized just how much I admire this man. Say what you will, but of this I know for fact. He is a true Patriot, who sincerely loves his country. One of the biggest mistakes he made was to communicate well to the American people all the great things he did for this country. I truly believe history will show that he was a great president. (That is if there are any conservative writers that will still be allowed to do so.) Wish the same could be said of the next man to overtake the White House.

Happy Halloween!!

2008-10-31T21:41:00.001-07:00

Halloween has come and gone again. I have to say I love this holiday. This year has been so much fun. We kind of celebrated all week long. We took a trip to Disneyland the first part of the week, which I will say is definitely worth doing in October. Along with our passes to Disneyland, we got tickets to Mickey's Trick or Treat Party, which I think I enjoyed as much as (or more than) the kids. They have this at the California park. They have trick or treat stations set up all throughout the park and all the rides are going as well. They only sell so many and luckily I bought them early. We really enjoyed that night. But, I have to say by far my favorite thing about Disneyland at Halloween is that they decorate the Haunted Mansion with all things "Nightmare Before Christmas" (one of my all time favorite holiday movies). So I would say if you haven't been there in October...do it! Plus the longest we waited in line was 15 minutes.

On Thursday we let the kids carve their pumpkins. You can't carve them any earlier here or they "cook" and wilt far too quickly. Now the kids pretty much did these themselves. Kalysta and Walker chose to use stencils while Brooklyn and Levi chose to "free hand" it. I think they all did a Spooktacular job!

And of course tonight was Halloween and the kids all looked quite adorable in their costumes. They've gotten good use out of them this year which makes my heart happy. It ain't cheap buying costumes for 4 very picky kids!! But after they all got dressed up I decided it was well worth it! Plus it couldn't have been nicer weather. I know I complain about the heat but I'll take trick or treating in 85 degree weather to 50's and rain or snow any day!

Brooklyn was a "fancy" witch.
Kalysta was a "pretty" witch.

Levi was Speed Racer.
Walker was Luke Skywalker

The boys only made it about an hour and were done so I brought them back to help James hand out candy and toothbrush kits...notice we also handed out candy so as not to be egged by bitter, angry, sugar-infested adolescents...scary.
I then took the girls back out for another hour and a half or so. We had a great night and the kids made out quite well! So Happy Halloween All!! We hope yours was as memorable and as fun filled as ours!!

Family Circus

2008-10-21T08:28:00.000-07:00

We've had so much fun the last couple weeks. My family decided they missed me so much that they just HAD to come visit....and we couldn't have been happier to have them! First Cami came with 2 of her girls Tyler and Cayden. We went shopping and just hung out. Cami had some dental work done and was a little sore the first couple days so we just stayed home, ate frozen yogurt and watched movies! The kids had fun playing together as well.

2 days after Cami headed home my other 2 sisters and my mom all piled in Sallie's new car, along with Charity's 3 girls and Sallie's twinners, and headed here to visit. We had such a good time. We took the kids to the splash park (it's still around 95 degrees here) where they enjoyed the last bits of an Arizona summer.

The next day we headed to Castles and Coasters. Of course the kids had a blast. I am still amazed at how brave they all are. The older girls rode the roller coaster. It had 2 "loopty loops". I willingly offered to stay with the younger kids. I'm a big chicken and am NOT a big fan of roller coasters. They also loved the log ride. Again, someone had to stay with the younger folks. But even Walker, Levi and Teagan braved that one!

Afterwards we had our awesome sitter, Mariyah (girl I love you!!) come and babysit all 9 children. She just said the more kids the better?! She babysat so the 5 of us could go to dinner at Cheesecake Factory. James said maybe polygamy wouldn't be so bad....

Sunday Sallie, Charity and my mom made dinner while James and I took all but the twins to church. Since we are still new to our large ward we got some pretty funny looks walking in with the 7 kids. But they were all very well behaved. James asked if I could imagine having 7 kids. I told him that my parents only had 1 less than that! I think I'll stick with my 4. After we had fun just sitting and chatting and watching the kids play.

Thank you to my awesome family for taking the time to come to visit. I know what a long drive it is. I know that it's a big expense. Thank you for loving us so much. Thank you to Dad, Kirby and Jesse for letting your wives leave you for the weekend. We love you and can't wait to see you at Thanksgiving. (Charity I'll post the pics of James and the kids as soon as I remember to bring them home!) Love you guys!!!!

SNOW?!

2008-10-13T09:31:00.000-07:00

I had to post this cute picture I stole from my sister's site. My kids are in Utah visiting their dad and it snowed!! We've had some pretty cool temps here...68-75 degrees. But they've already got snow! Here they are with their cousins playing in the fluffy, cold white stuff!

Tagged....Again

2008-10-13T08:43:00.000-07:00

I actually planned on doing this tag about a week ago when I saw it on Katie's blog. I took the pictures and when I went to post it saw James tag, which he made me promise not to remove. Well it's had it's run and now it's time to move on. I actually had fun with this one.

Favorite Pair of Shoes:
Pair? I don't have a favorite "pair" but I tried to narrow it down to just a few. Shoes are a love of mine and to choose just one, well I couldn't hurt the other's feelings...but I did try to choose some of my absolute favorites. Right now.

Dream Vacation:

There are so many places that I would love to visit. But, I think, I would like most to visit Ireland.

Favorite Room:
Right now I'd have to say my living room. Because it's the only one I feel is complete. Plus I love the library in that room. It's the room we all seem to migrate to. I put a couple pictures because it's an odd shaped room and hard to get all of it in one shot.

What your kids are doing right now:

The girls were happily playing with Kalysta's doll house.

Walker had locked himself in the boys room. Levi was laying on the floor by the door talking underneath it as an attempt to get him to open the door.

Once I got the door open, I found Walker on his bed. He said he was angry because the girls wouldn't let him in Kalysta's room. I did happen to catch him peeking out from his blanket, which he was hiding under.

Self Portrait:
One of the few times I curled my hair. It just takes much too long.

Kitchen Sink:
Not really sure why anyone would want to see my kitchen sink. But uh, here it is. At least there wasn't much in it. This is usually not the case.

Refrigerator:
Again, not all that exciting. BUT, there is a pumpkin pie in there. AND plenty of diet cherry coke!

Laundry Room:
My laundry room is used every day. I always say to my mom that I will die in my laundry room. It is never empty...never.

Toilet??:
Ok. This is James bathroom, downstairs off his gym. That's why it's decorated the way it is. The boy loves to golf...obviously. On a side note, this is also the bathroom that is closest to my garage so it's also the one the boys use as soon as they run in from school. So, the lid is closed.

Now I'm not one to really tag individuals. So, I too will extend a "tag" to anyone who wants to take the time to take the pictures. Enjoy!!

tagged. top 5 things that make me cool

2008-10-07T21:36:00.000-07:00

ok, joe... i read your blog. now that i've been tagged i get to post the top 5 things that make me cool. you can check out JD-N-Lianna's link on the lower left hand side of the page to see what makes him cool and see his tag. of course i'm always happy to talk about how cool i am!!!

the NUMBER 1 all time thing that makes me absolutely cool........ (drum roll please) .....

IS MY WIFE!!!!! that's right, check out this video of her making me cool. just make sure you turn off the music player at the bottom of the page first.

the number 2 thing that makes me cool is.. well, i guess that video makes up all 5 of the things that make me cool. :) thanks aimzister radio!

now if you've read this blog, you have been tagged and now you have to make your own top 5 list. just remember, it won't be cooler than mine.

Time For Halloween

2008-10-07T08:38:00.000-07:00

This last Sunday after watching General Conference the kids made "Haunted Gingerbread Houses". Yeah, so if there is an easy way to do anything...I'm there. The pre-made kits are the best. No baking, cutting, or frosting to make....Awesome! There was even a slight chill in the air (it only hit 85). So it gave the impression that fall might actually grace us with it's presence. (It's supposed to get back up into the mid-90's this week however).

Getting started.

Brooklyn making a "textured garden". She went into great detail to explain this process to me.

Kalysta went all out on the back of her house. It was as creepy as the front!

Levi loved using the "fiery mints" to guard his castle.

Walker loved making his skull garden...where all the dead people lived...with just their skulls. Naturally.

They had such a good time. While most of the candy ended up just being eaten...my favorite part of the whole process...they managed to use enough to make some pretty cute castles. Which will proudly be displayed until Halloween. It was a great Sunday. Conference was wonderful and inspiring as it always is. Our kids did so well sitting and listening. I was very impressed. They had things to color and mom made some snacks to lure them in but all in all they did well. Here are their finished creations.

The Front....

And Back!

To end the night we had our first dinner on our new dining room table. I LOVE my orange room AND my new table. But most of all I love those little critters seated at our table. It seemed to me that one of the overwhelming messages of conference was to have hope, and find joy in the journey. This is what life is about. To enjoy the small, simple moments that have a lasting effect on our lives. I will always be grateful for the joy they have brought us. We are blessed to have the spirit of happiness in our home. While the journey is never easy we have tried to always find the good that seems to be underlying every trial. But on days like these it's easy to find the joy....

A Special Visit

2008-10-03T10:48:00.000-07:00

We had the opportunity to have James' grandpa come for a visit. What a wonderful time we had with him! He came so that he could have James' do some work on his teeth and to spend some time with his grand and great grand kids. I am so thankful for the opportunity to have been able to spend time with him. He was very patient as I drug him all over the place as he spent the days with me while James was working. ;-) It was nice to hear how proud he was of all that James has been able to accomplish. And we couldn't agree more. It was also a treat to have good conversation. I got to hear all about "little Jim". (And rest assured I have had many hours of fun with the nickname alone!) I will forever be grateful to his grandma and grandpa for the love and support they have always been willing to give. His grandpa told me of the special relationship James had with his sweet grandmother, she will truly be missed. I have had the chance to talk to this wonderful lady on the phone, and wish that I could have had the chance to meet her and look forward to the time when I do.

On Saturday morning we went on a hike up White Tank Mountains. A few members of James staff had planned to go and asked if we'd like to come along. It was an easy and relaxing hike...then Juan suggested we take it up a notch and schedule a trip to hike down and up the Grand Canyon. After which he was appropriately beaten by the rest of us. No worries he only suffered minor injuries...

After the hike we all came back to our place for a very yummy breakfast!!

Grandpa, we thoroughly enjoyed your visit and look forward to the next time we get to see you. We love you grandpa!

Oblahblah...

2008-09-29T14:26:00.001-07:00

Here is a great picture depicting Beck's new name for Obama a.k.a. Barack Oblahblah. Love it!

After watching the debates is there ANY question who is more qualified to be the Commander in Chief? Well, I mean to be fair Oblablabla "has a bracelet"...that MUST make him qualified.

Happy 7th Birthday Kalysta!!!

2008-09-29T11:09:00.000-07:00

Here is our birthday girl through the years.

Kalysta had her 7th birthday on Saturday. We celebrated for her 2 different days. Since her brother and sister were going to be gone this weekend we had a little party for her Wednesday. We went to dinner at Red Robin, Kalysta's favorite restaurant, and then to see Igor. We then came home and she opened her presents.

Who doesn't have fun opening presents??

Then Saturday we took Kalysta to Peter Piper Pizza, oh so much fun, and she and Levi had a grand time! Afterwards we went home to have cake and ice cream and open a few more presents. We feel so blessed to have this sweet, vibrant, happy little girl in our home. James commented the other day that Kalysta ALWAYS has a smile on her face...she's always happy. As I looked through pictures of Kalysta I found that that statement was profoundly true. Kalysta is such a happy individual. She is always able to find the good and fun in life. She never fails to keep a smile on her cute little face. We love that about her! She received lots of fun stuff for her birthday. From her mom she got an American Girl Doll and lots of fun accessories with it. She also got some fun outfits that match her doll, some fun toys and an ipod. From us she got barbies, wii games, a skateboard, (and a helmet and elbow and knee pads) some games, a cupcake maker, polly pockets and a purple ipod. From her grammy and papa she got Heely's which she has only taken off for bed! From her aunt Charity, uncle Kirby and her cousins she got sidewalk paints (thanks Charity...I can't wait till Teagans birthday to repay that favor!) and money. She also got money from her great Grandma and Grandpa Quillen. Thanks to all who made this such a fun day for Kalysta. Happy Birthday sweetie!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY....TO ME!

2008-09-22T21:24:00.000-07:00

Today is my 28th birthday...no really ask Brooklyn. Ok, so maybe she's off by a few years. But only a FEW. My birthday actually began last Friday when James and I took an opportunity to spend some time in Las Vegas. My kiddos dad was going to be there visiting family and so we took the kids there to see him. And being that we were going to be in Vegas that gave James' kids the opportunity to spend a little more time with their mom. So Saturday mornin' we dropped my kiddos off and then hit up Deseret Book to get my first Birthday Present. It's a picture of Christ walking along the shore with a little plate at the bottom that says "Walk With Me" by Greg Olsen. Love it, Love it! We then met Beck and Mike (who so graciously let us stay with them) and their awesome kids for lunch at Joe's. James has been wanting to hit The Shack for some time now but there's not one close to us.

Little Chase Man and me!

Beck, Me and Ashlee

Mike n James

Me and My Boy!

Oh Yes....Let's

Then James and I just spent some time at Beck and Mike's place, watching a little Apple TV and Pirates of the Caribbean....because one can never watch that movie too many times! James then took me to Best Buy to "look around". Then we headed over to Kona Grill and had some amazingly yummy food. (Which on a side note I'm pretty sure I left Vegas with more than souvenirs....my booty took a few for itself).

Kona Grill

Mike was kind eough to take a few pics of us outside Kona.

Yep, that there is the man of my dreams....

Better

Then we headed over to the theater to see Ghost Town. Great movie!! Hysterical and there was a dentist in it so of course we had to see it. Honestly though one of the better movies I've seen this year.

Then, we headed back over to Best Buy where James got me my second birthday present...well actually he tried and then decided he also wanted an iphone and the idiot (I'm sorry but that's the nicest word I can think of) couldn't find an Arizona calling area. So James and I went the next day to AT&T and got my awesome new phone. I LOVE that thing. It's like carrying your computer with you. There isn't much this thing can't do. If it could clean my house and cook me dinner I would need nothing else! We also had time to have breakfast with our good friend Josh! It was so good to see him...we miss you guys!!

Then, as today was my actual birthday we went to dinner at Olive Garden. All in all a fabulous birthday. I got a cute fall plate from my sister (so cute!!) and money from my mom and dad, always a good thing. And let's not forget my Happy Birthday phone call that I have received from my grandparents for as long as I can remember. My birthday wouldn't be the same without that call and them singing Happy Birthday! So a big big thanks to all who made this such a fun day(s). Oh and uh, while we were there Walker managed to accidentally push Ashlee off the monkey bars, breaking her arm in the process. (For the full account see Beck and Mike's blog) But amazingly they still love us!

Good elbow
Ashlee's elbow

Dinner at Olive Garden...
My Boy's
The Girls
The FUN never stops
Make a wish

Happy Birthday to meeeeeee ;-D

Family

2008-09-19T09:01:00.000-07:00

I was looking at my sister's blog today and came across this picture which I think must have been taken recently. As you will notice, I am the only one not there. Although I knew moving so far away would be hard, when I saw this picture I started to tear up a little. I love my home, I love the place I am at in life, I have so much to be thankful for. But...I LOVE my family. I miss them and wish there wasn't so much distance between us. So I just want to take a minute to let you all know how much I love your beautiful faces. I was just thinking the other day as I dropped my kids off at the bus, about just how lucky I was to have had such a fun childhood. We had so much fun together and I am so grateful that my parents taught us the importance of having a close family. I can still remember my mom saying...having friends is important, but one day those friends will have their own separate lives and families. Your family is all you will have, so cherish them. I do.

Mosaic Me

2008-09-18T07:02:00.000-07:00

To make your own:
a. Type your answer to each of the questions below into Flickr Search.
b. Using only the first page, pick an image.
c. Copy and paste each of the URLs for the images into fd’s mosaic maker.

*Note-you must have a flikr account. Once finished you have to upload it to flikr and then choose the medium size to post.*

The questions:
1. What is your first name? Aimee
2. What is your favorite food? Mexican
3. What high school did you go to? Green Valley
4. What is your favorite color? Purple
5. Who is your celebrity crush? Tom Welling
6. Favorite drink? Diet Cherry Coke
7. Dream vacation? Ireland
8. Favorite dessert? Flan
9. What you want to be when you grow up? A Mother
10. What do you love most in life? Family
11. One Word to describe you. Happy
12. Your flickr name (or your blog name or handle or whatever)Now it's your turn!! (Mallory Clan)

--Thanks Melody that was fun!!

Little Boys...Big Toys

2008-09-15T09:12:00.000-07:00

As you saw in the earlier post James has finally decided to buy a new car. When I met James he had just bought a Honda Accord (which I loved and he hated) that he assured me he only wanted to keep until after graduation. He also had a BMW which he sold shortly after we were married to pay for his boards. So, it has been a little over a year now that he has been out of school and a little over 9 months that he has been searching for his "dream car". We thought he'd found it a couple times but alas he was not satisfied. I threatened him with his life if he was to take me to one more dealership. We all know the nature of car salesmen and frankly I had had enough. So 2 weeks ago he convinced me to come to one more. And thankfully he found a car that he loved. You see, James is such an incredibly, selfless human being. He was having a difficult time wanting to buy something for himself. He ALWAYS puts the needs (and wants) of his family first. So to spend money on something that he has wanted so badly was not easy for him. Of course I had no problem with convincing him that he deserved it. Because he does. He's worked hard under some very hard circumstances, never giving up, and so James Congrats on the new car! I think I'm now a permanent BMW fan!

The boys showing some "muscle".

BMW 645 Ci

stay in school

2008-09-14T18:21:00.000-07:00

my beautiful wife in front of my beautiful car in front of my beautiful house. i can die now.

(eat this nurf!)

It's Raining Teeth??

2008-09-14T17:38:00.000-07:00

Well as they say when it rains it pours. Last week James noticed that Brooklyn's upper right canine was coming in funny, and because of this it was not dissolving the root of the primary tooth. It was therefore keeping it from falling out and making the permanent tooth erupt wrong so....he decided to pull it. He had to give her a shot and she did fabulously! Not even one tear. Of course he also gave her a little nitrous so that helped ease her anxiety (and mine).

Then, today after waiting and waiting and waiting Kalysta FINALLY lost her first tooth!! She has been very upset that she had not yet lost a single tooth and she is almost 7. So today she pulled it out in primary. I know I've already mentioned how tough this little lady is but when James and I saw the tooth we both laughed as it was clearly not quite ready to come out. As in there was still part of the root attached. ;-) So one can only conclude that it had to have been slightly painful to remove. But there is no stopping that girl when she is determined. Here is a cute picture of our toothless girl.

Midnight Sun

2008-09-05T08:47:00.000-07:00

As most of you are aware I (along with millions of others) have been reading the Twilight series. I absolutely LOVE these books. I have always loved fantasy...part of being born with the x chromosome I suppose....and these books have offered plenty of that. Yes, they are simple and easy to read, so I guess some find them silly. Regardless, I still have enjoyed them immensely. When I finished Breaking Dawn I was a little sad that it was the end but knew that Stephenie Meyer was working on Midnight Sun, a version of Twilight from Edward's perspective. However, I just learned that someone has leaked a draft illegally online. And so Stephenie has put the book on hold indefinitely. Not that I blame her. Anyone who spends, hours..weeks..and months putting their whole heart and soul into something, whether it be writing, music, film, or anything that one gives all of themselves to deserves to have that displayed, read listened to or shown the way only THEY envisioned it would be. So Stephenie has released on her website a draft of Midnight Sun...an incomplete draft but a draft none the less. So I'm off to read and hope that one day she changes her mind and decides to finish the last of these wonderful books. But hey, we still have the movie...let's hope no one is stupid or callous enough to leak that! You can get the draft HERE.

A "Thriller" of a Time....

2008-09-03T12:37:00.000-07:00

I was going through some old pictures and came across this one. My good friend Aubree and I hosted a murder mystery some months ago. It was SO MUCH FUN!! I mean who can resist dressing up in clothes from probably the worst decade (only speaking from a fashion standpoint of course) EVER? So here is a picture from that Radical night! When we gonna do it again Aub?

The Sheep in Wolf's Clothing....

2008-09-02T13:47:00.000-07:00

Why anyone with a soul or conscience would ever consider voting for this man is beyond me. I have read the bible Mr. Obama, it is painfully clear you have not. Is this really the man we want running the country? And yes I meant what I said in the title. He's a sheep...he has no real opinion of his own, in fact I don't think even HE is sure of what he believes. But given some of the recent views he's put himself behind, he is much like the wolf who will huff and puff and blow away all that's left of what was once so great about this nation.....Virtue, Pride, Gratitude, Strength, Faith, Hope, Hard Work...need I go on?